Four Recommended May Releases

Here are four enjoyable books due out next month that I was lucky enough to read early. The first two are memoirs, the third is an audacious poetry book by an author new to me, and the last is the sophomore novel from an author I’ve loved before. I’ve pulled 250-word extracts from my full reviews and hope you’ll be tempted by one or more of these.

Last Things: A Graphic Memoir of Loss and Love by Marissa Moss

(Coming from Conari Press on May 1st [USA]; June 8th in UK)

“You’re not aware of last things,” Moss, a children’s book author/illustrator, writes in this wrenching memoir of losing her husband to ALS. We look forward to and celebrate all of life’s firsts, but we never know until afterwards when we’ve experienced a last. The author’s husband, Harvey Stahl, was a medieval art historian working on a book about Louis IX’s prayer book. ALS is always a devastating diagnosis, but Harvey had the particularly severe bulbar variety, and his lungs were quick to succumb. His battery-powered ventilator led to many scares – one time Moss had to plug him into the wall at a gas station and rush home for a spare battery – and he also underwent an emergency tracheotomy surgery.

This is an emotionally draining read. It’s distressing to see how, instead of drawing closer and relying on each other, Marisa and Harvey drifted apart. Harvey pushed everyone away and focused on finishing his book and returning to his academic duties. He refused to accept his limitations and resisted necessary medical interventions. Meanwhile, Moss struggled with the unwanted role of caregiver while trying not to neglect her children and her own career.

I’ve read several nonfiction books about ALS now. Compared to the other two, Moss gets the tone just right. She’s a reliable witness to a medical and bureaucratic nightmare. At the distance of years, though, she writes about the experience without bitterness. I can see this graphic novel being especially helpful to older teens with a terminally ill parent.

My rating:


My Life with Bob: Flawed Heroine Keeps Book of Books, Plot Ensues by Pamela Paul

(Coming from Henry Holt on May 2nd [USA]; June 13th in UK)

I hold books about books to high standards and won’t stand for the slightest hint of plot summary, filler or spoilers. It’s all too easy for an author to concentrate on certain, often obscure books that mean a lot to him/her, dissecting the plots without conveying a sense of the wider appeal. The trick is to find the universal in the particular, and vice versa.

Pamela Paul, editor of the New York Times Book Review, does this absolutely perfectly. In 1988, as a high school junior, she started keeping track of her reading in a simple notebook she dubbed “Bob,” her Book of Books. In this memoir she delves into Bob to explain how her reading both reflected and shaped her character. The focus is unfailingly on books’ interplay with her life, such that each one mentioned more than earns its place.

A page from my 2007 reading diary. Lots of mid-faith-crisis religion titles there. Starting in 2009, I think, I’ve kept this information in an annual computer file instead.

So whether she was hoarding castoffs from her bookstore job, obsessing about ticking off everything in the Norton Anthology, despairing that she’d run out of reading material in a remote yurt in China, or fretting that her husband took a fundamentally different approach to the works of Thomas Mann, Paul always looks beyond the books themselves to interrogate what they say about herself.

This is the sort of book I wish I had written. If you have even the slightest fondness for books about books, you won’t want to miss this one. I’ve found a new favorite bibliomemoir, and an early entry on the Best of 2017 list.

My rating:


Nature Poem by Tommy Pico

(Coming on May 9th from Tin House Books)

Tommy “Teebs” Pico is a Native American from the Kumeyaay nation and grew up on the Viejas Indian reservation. This funny, sexy, politically aware multi-part poem was written as a collective rebuttal to the kind of line he often gets in gay bars, something along the lines of ‘oh, you’re an Indian poet, so you must write about nature?’ Au contraire: Pico’s comfort zone is the urban, the pop cultural, and the technologically up-to-date – his poems are full of textspeak (“yr,” “bc” for because, “rn” for right now, “NDN” for Indian), an affectation that would ordinarily bother me but that I tolerated here because of Pico’s irrepressible sass: “I wd give a wedgie to a sacred mountain and gladly piss on the grass of / the park of poetic form / while no one’s lookin.”

Some more favorite lines:

“How do statues become more galvanizing than refugees / is not something I wd include in a nature poem.”

“Knowing the moon is inescapable tonight / and the tuft of yr chest against my shoulder blades— / This is a kind of nature I would write a poem about.”

“I can’t write a nature poem bc English is some Stockholm shit, makes me complicit in my tribe’s erasure”

“It’s hard to unhook the heavy marble Nature from the chain around yr neck / when history is stolen like water. // Reclamation suggests social / capital”

My rating:


The Awkward Age by Francesca Segal

(Coming on May 4th from Chatto & Windus [UK] and May 16th from Riverhead Books [USA])

I adored Segal’s first novel, The Innocents, a sophisticated remake of Edith Wharton’s The Age of Innocence set in a contemporary Jewish community in London. I wasn’t as fond of this second book, but in her study of an unusual blended family the characterization is nearly as strong as in her debut. Julia Alden lost her husband to cancer five years ago. A second chance at happiness came when James Fuller, a divorced American obstetrician, came to her for piano lessons. He soon moved into Julia and sixteen-year-old Gwen’s northwest London home, and his seventeen-year-old son, Nathan, away at boarding school, came on weekends.

Julia is as ill at ease with Nathan as James is with Gwen, and the kids seem to hate each other. That is until, on a trip to Boston for Thanksgiving with James’s ex, Gwen and Nathan fall for each other. Awkward is one way of putting it. They’re not technically step-siblings as James and Julia aren’t married, but it doesn’t sit right with the adults, and it will have unexpected consequences.

The first third or so of the book was my favorite, comparable to Jonathan Safran Foer or Jonathan Franzen. Before long the romantic comedy atmosphere tips into YA melodrama, but for me the book was saved by a few things: a balance of generations, with Gwen’s grandparents a delightful background presence; the eye to the past, whether it be Gwen’s late father or the occasional Jewish ritual; the Anglo-American element; and a realistic ending.

My rating:

Have you read any May releases that you would recommend? Which of these do you fancy?

25 responses

  1. ‘“How do statues become more galvanizing than refugees / is not something I wd include in a nature poem.”’
    Excellent point. I’ve wondered myself.


    1. It’s a good line, isn’t it?

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  2. Pamela Paul’s book sounds excellent – I’ve always loved her editorials for the New York Times Book Review. Must get hold of this one.

    I’ve read a few terrific May releases this month: Colm Toibin’s new novel House of Names, which retells the story of the sacrifice of Iphigenia and its aftermath; Olivia Sudjic’s Sympathy, a disorienting tale about how the Internet both cheapens and intensifies our relationships; Henry Marsh’s new memoir Admissions, a follow-up to Do No Harm, which I thought was incredibly well written and self-aware; and Sarah Schmidt’s retelling of the Lizzie Borden axe murders, See What I Have Done, which is shit-hot on the way it handles historical attitudes to mental illness. Oh, and The Fact of a Body by Alexandria Marzano-Lesnevich, which combines novelistic true crime with personal memoir in the most skilful and least sensationalistic of ways, and which I hope will be a massive bestseller.


    1. You know I’m stingy with my five-star ratings, so YES, I do highly recommend Pamela Paul to you / to anyone who likes reading books about books. I’m insanely jealous of how she basically fell into her job with NYTBR.

      That’s an awesome list of May releases! I expect I’ll see them on your superlatives soon. I’m steering clear of the Toibin, but all of the others appeal, especially Henry Marsh’s new book, which I’m very keen to get hold of. I have See What I Have Done and The Fact of a Body on my Kindle and look forward to both. There’s just too many new books each month to keep track of! Do you get early access to print proofs via the bookshop, or are these all ones you requested from publishers?

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      1. I KNOW. Too many. These are all proofs I got from the shop, with the exception of See What I Have Done, which someone at Tinder Press sent me. I went a little overboard in taking proofs from the shop this month; I’ve decided to rein it in in future. They end up in a big pile on my desk and I push myself to read them super-fast and then I wonder why my brain feels like it’s eaten seven courses and can’t stand up. As it were.


    2. Ha ha, great metaphor! I guess the good news is that you don’t feel obligated to write full reviews for these, so you can just get away with a paragraph or so on your superlatives roundup. Does your shop eventually give the proofs away to customers? My local indie in Hungerford does that, on a table in the basement, and I think it’s a nice touch.

      I often feel like I should be focusing more on pre-release books, but I find I’m so busy with my paid review work plus copies I’ve requested (plus library books, plus the books staring at me from my own shelves) that I only maybe manage 3-5 in the month before they come out. For me it was these 4 plus the Rob Bell, and I’m working on the new Tracy Chevalier (Hogarth Shakespeare) now.

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      1. I’ve proposed offering the proofs before, I think, but the general consensus is that if publishers know you’re doing that, they’re going to feel affronted in some way. It’s not as though we’re selling them, of course, but still – if a customer could buy a book, but gets a free copy instead, I can see why publishers would get a little ratty. (Though I still secretly think it’s a lovely idea.)


    3. Ah, okay, I hadn’t thought about it like that. It just seems a better solution than proofs being pulped, and could help build customer loyalty. Like, buy some books and we’ll toss in a free one.


      1. My instinct is definitely the same – I haven’t yet developed a reliable sense of the other relationships a bookshop has to maintain, apart from just the customer base.


  3. Carolyn Anthony | Reply

    5 * for My Life with Bob! Wow! I await the day when you write yours.

    Sent from my iPhone



    1. It does seem like I’d write a bibliomemoir if anything. It would be hard to live up to this one!


  4. i’ve often had that problem of running out of reading material but never “in a remote yurt in China”. No chance of wifi connection in that location I imagine to even download to a device.


    1. This was in the mid-1990s, I think. She devoured Wild Swans but then realized she had no more books with her!


      1. Thats at least a book I could read more than once

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  5. I’ve had My Life With Bob on hold at the library since I saw that you gave it a 5 star rating on Goodreads. I also have a running list of books I’ve read since grade 8 – it’ll be interesting to see how her list compares with mine! I’m also wishing I’d given mine a name. Hmm… I’ll have to think about that!

    “Last Things” sounds heartbreaking, but now I want to read it. And I’ve just added Segal’s The Innocents to my list!

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    1. Ah, you’ve reminded me that I meant to include a photo from one of my early reading journals. I’ve added that in above. I’m glad I can consider myself responsible for introducing you to some great books 🙂 I read a lot of books about death, but Last Things hit particularly hard for some reason. I had to read the e-book on my laptop screen and I blubbed through about the last half of it.

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      1. It’s always nice to know that I’m not the only blubber. 🙂


  6. My Life with Bob sounds a real must. I love books about books and this one comes so highly recommended it’s going at the top of the list!

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  7. I’m another one who has added My Life with Bob to their wishlist! I have a smaller TBR now so room for some new buys soon. I think I have a couple of books out in May on the Kindle but I’m not sure – I’ve been out sick for a week so haven’t really caught up control yet!

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    1. Excellent 🙂 I feel like quite the evangelist for this book. As the NYTBR editor, I’m sure she hardly needs my help selling her book! I read it on Kindle via Edelweiss. Not sure if it’s been on NetGalley.

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  8. […] My Life with Bob by Pamela Paul: I’ve found a new favorite bibliomemoir. Whether she was hoarding castoffs from her bookstore job, obsessing about ticking off everything in the Norton Anthology, despairing that she’d run out of reading material in a remote yurt in China, or fretting that her new husband took a fundamentally different approach to the works of Thomas Mann, Paul (editor of the New York Times Book Review) always looks beyond the books themselves to ask what they say about her. Just the sort of book I wish I had written. […]


  9. […] Rebecca at BookishBeck has declared this her “new favorite bibliomemoir”. […]


  10. […] My Life with Bob by Pamela Paul: Whether she was hoarding castoffs from her bookstore job, obsessing about ticking off everything in the Norton Anthology, despairing that she’d run out of reading material in a remote yurt in China, or fretting that her new husband took a fundamentally different approach to the works of Thomas Mann, Paul (the editor of the New York Times Book Review) always looks beyond the books themselves to ask what they say about her. It’s just the sort of bibliomemoir I wish I had written. […]


  11. […] of Pico’s run-on, stream-of-consciousness poem, the third in his Teebs trilogy (after IRL and Nature Poem). The overarching theme is being a homosexual Native American in Brooklyn. You might think of Pico […]


  12. […] Last Things: A Graphic Memoir of Loss and Love by Marissa Moss […]


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